Is it possible for parents to carry conversations on sexuality education with children without the “too young” mindset? How can parents approach children on this topic?
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Edited: Oct 05, 2022
Q1. The tension between the need to talk about sexuality openly and the fear of normalising actions that contradict Islamic guideline.
Q1. The tension between the need to talk about sexuality openly and the fear of normalising actions that contradict Islamic guideline.
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Have appropriate reading materials on sexuality for the different age groups for both gender. Also provide parents with the right information on Islamic guidance on teaching sexuality to their children.
I believe parents need to be comfortable first, with saying the proper words in relation to sexual education. Example, refrain from giving "nicknames" to identify body parts, and instead, to stick to its scientific name for better understanding and clarity. This could open doors of genuine curiosity rather than children withholding their thoughts and assumptions. Parents could also assess what is the level of child's readiness and understanding to discuss this topic by asking them first "what do you know and what do you want to know" , and it could gradually lead from there.
I believe there is never a specific age to start having conversations about this, especially considering the kind of exposure our kids have :)
Parents need to be comfortable with the topic to teach/guide their children. They may need to be equip with relevant resources on how to engage the children with age-appropriate sex education materials. Learning should start from home and parents should be a good source for children to seek guidance and knowledge.
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Can teach children to identify body parts by name, instead of assigning nicknames for a start. This sets the stage for having proper conversations about their body as they grow older.
Need to approach based on age. Possibly to start as early as possible
it shld nt be an issue to discuss since current env is more open due to media influence
Parents need to know other aspects of sexuality education 1st before teaching their children.
Given that it's a taboo topic, parents may be uncomfortable broaching the topic with their small kids. But i believe this can be overcome with parenting education. With education, parents will be more confident.